sobased on the thoughts here
am i to understand that debit card (whether on pay pal or directly) is safe to use
Correct. You have to realize that if a small company wasn't safe and secure with credit card payments, they wouldn't be in business long.
You think it's annoying, you should try working there.
Ha ha!
I hoped you'd see that, because I figured you'd have a good comment. Thanks for not disappointing.