Well, I'm definitely not a bad person. I think I'm actually one of the nicest person in the world... But I'm human so I can loose my temper :p
I'd say light side but... The Dark side is so cool.
I mean, lightnings. What a useful power !
" Oh no ! The power is down ! Electricity's gone !"
"- Don't worry, I can give what you need !"
See ? I even think of what GOOD actions I can do with BAD powers (or, if you prefer, powers that are acquired on the dark side).
But I won't consider myself a Jedi. They're cool too but their doctrine is way too harsh. That's what caused the last Purge in my opinion
Caution should be taken, but love should never be something that is, like in the Jedi code, forbidden.
I can see something like:
A Jedi defends, but do not provoque
A Jedi always grant forgiveness over vengeance
A Jedi always choose life over death
A Jedi is allowed to love and do not let this love corrupt his judgment
When in difficult times, as hard as it can be, a Jedi should always be altruist, not selfish