Hey there Yodaman20000,
Force points really don't need to be equally shared at all. If you see or read something worth your recognition or approval, a FP can be awarded. Either the member will denote which side they prefer, or, like I just have, deduce it from your pic and/or handle.
You don't have to feel like you have to give one back each time you get one, but they're yours to give away.